Who is this for?
This is for adults who want to explore consensual impact play in a structured, negotiated environment. You might be completely new and curious, or experienced and looking for a deeper, more intentional scene.
What happens in a scene?
Each scene is co-designed in advance. We'll negotiate intensity, tone, pacing, and which implements are used. You’ll have time to change, center yourself, and get grounded. There will be a clear beginning, middle, and end, with space for decompression and aftercare.
What should I bring?
Bring water, clothes you can move comfortably in, and any personal items that help you feel safe or grounded (such as a towel, a specific aftercare snack, or a hoodie). I’ll provide the rest, including implements, music if requested, and a clean, welcoming space.
Do you travel?
Yes, within the Bay Area. A travel fee may apply depending on distance and venue.
Are these sexual services?
No. This is not sexual contact. I do not engage in kissing, intercourse, or oral sex. Nor do I expose myself. Please do not request anything that crosses these clearly stated boundaries.
Can I book more than one session?
Yes, ongoing dynamics are welcome. Every session will still begin with check-ins, boundary reviews, and negotiation.
Will this leave marks?
It can. Whether you bruise or mark depends on your body, the intensity of the scene, and the tools we use. It is not my preference to leave lasting marks, but some implements are more likely to cause them than others. We’ll discuss your limits and preferences ahead of time and adjust accordingly.
What are safewords?
Safewords are agreed-upon signals you can use to slow down or stop a scene at any time. I use both verbal and non-verbal safewords so that you're supported even if you become non-verbal during play.
We’ll choose words or gestures that feel natural to you, whether that’s using a traffic-light system (like yellow for “slow down” and red for “stop”) or a specific hand motion, tapping pattern, or object you can drop.
The moment a safeword or signal is used, the scene either pauses or ends. No questions, no hesitation. Your safety and agency come first.
What is “aftercare”?
Aftercare is the time we take after a scene to help you come down gently, physically, emotionally, and energetically. It might include water, warmth, quiet, conversation, or negotiated touch.
We’ll talk about your needs in advance and build them into the session. I also check in with you in the days that follow to help support integration and ongoing care.
How do I prepare for a scene?
Please arrive on time, freshly washed, and ready to be present. You don’t need to shave or change how your body naturally is. Body hair is welcome, and you’re not expected to alter yourself for me.
Come rested, hydrated, and as yourself. There’s nothing to prove. We’ll take care of the rest together.
Are couples welcome?
Yes, couples are absolutely welcome. You can both participate in a session, or I can assist one partner in exploring impact while the other observes or supports. I also offer dominance coaching or scene work designed for couples seeking to deepen their connection, power exchange, or negotiation skills. All dynamics and roles are negotiated in advance. Everyone’s boundaries are honored equally.
Can I dominate you?
No. I do not offer switch or submissive services. In our time together, I take on the role of top, facilitator, and guide. My focus is on creating structured, negotiated experiences centered around your goals and boundaries, not mine.
If you’re looking to explore dominance yourself, I’m happy to coach or support you in stepping into that role with skill and intention.
What if I need to cancel?
As a courtesy, please give at least 48 hours' notice if you need to cancel or reschedule. For prepaid sessions, that notice ensures your full credit of the deposit for a future session. If cancellations become a repeated pattern, I may decline future bookings.
If you arrive late, our session will still end at the scheduled time, so arriving on time is important.