1. Reach out to me
Introduce yourself, tell me what you’re interested in, and share what kind of scene you’d like to experience. This is the first step in beginning a negotiated and respectful connection.

2. Meet for a consultation
We’ll agree on a time and place to meet, either virtually or in person. I’m based in Berkeley and may charge a nominal travel fee.
This consultation is where we get to know one another, discuss boundaries, preferences, interests, and aftercare needs, and choose a date to move forward with the scene.

3. Session day
The scene is  easily split into 3 parts:
First you’ll have time to change out of streetwear and get grounded. We’ll reconfirm limits, review safewords or nonverbal signals, and calibrate to each other.
Second, the scene we’ve designed unfolds.  
Finally we allow space for recovery, aftercare, and dressing do get you grounded in your body and in a good headspace to go back into society.

4. Aftercare & Follow-up
Aftercare doesn’t end when our session does. I will check in with you over the next few days to see how you’re feeling physically and emotionally. These follow ups are part of the care I offer and help ensure integration and trust.